The Ten Commandments of Life

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There is a fire burning within me...and that fire has a face. It tells me to hope. and within that hope, I have discovered myself. Discovered my worth. I have grown....


I have learnt to love, with all its shortcomings. I have learnt to let go...I have learnt to get up by myself, and move on...


I have discovered that for everyone, there are people in this world who love you more than you can you can think. Never throw their love away. Because you might never have anyone else to be loved by.


At times, when the going gets tough, people who you least expected come and stand beside you. It's unusual. But it makes no sense to let go off that bond.


Perfection in relationships doesn't exist only because we are humans. We can't whine and cry. We have got to move on.


When you start giving yourself up completely to your love and friends, platonic or non-platonic, you would find that half the world don't have the capacity to take your love. But still, give your love without conditions.


That naming certain relationships complicate life. So don't!


That life is not complicated at all. It's just that we refuse to accept changes.


That all our fears, our hatred, our grudges are our insecurities.


I discovered to love only for love, without expecting anything.


I discovered that my best friend and I can do absolutely nothing and still have the best time together.


Huh!!! Enough for the day!! Will serve my purpose for a couple of months now! Gotta go!!! See ya soon!

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